Back to School: A Grade-by-Grade Guide for Mater Dei, Newport Harbor & Corona del Mar Students
A new school year always feels like a fresh start, but what actually makes it a productive one looks different depending on where you are in high school. As a college counselor working with students at Mater Dei, Newport Harbor, and Corona del Mar High Schools, here's what I'm telling my students right now, broken down by grade.
Seniors
This is the year everything you've been building toward comes together, so the first few weeks matter more than they might feel like they do. Whether you're a senior at Mater Dei, Newport Harbor, or Corona Del Mar, the fall checklist looks the same. Start by checking in with the teachers you're asking for letters of recommendation — a quick, genuine thank-you and a reminder of your deadlines goes a long way, and it's much easier to do this now than to chase someone down in November. Get on your counselor's calendar early too; they're about to get very busy, and a face-to-face check-in now can save you a lot of stress later.
Keep chipping away at your personal statement and supplemental essays a little at a time rather than saving them for a weekend crunch. And if you haven't already, this fall is likely your last shot at the ACT or SAT — register now if you're planning to test again, so you're not scrambling to find a seat close to application deadlines.
Juniors
Junior year has a reputation for being tough, and honestly, it earns it — but the students who come out of it strongest are usually the ones who focus on a few things well rather than trying to do everything. Start building real relationships with your teachers now. Show up, ask questions, participate. These are the people who will likely be writing your recommendation letters next year, and genuine connections can't be built in a rush.
Pick one class this semester where you push yourself to raise your hand more, contribute more, and work a little harder than feels comfortable. You don't have to do this in every class — just pick one and commit to it. And above everything else, get serious about time management. Between coursework, activities, and (eventually) testing and college research, this is the year that rewards students who plan ahead instead of reacting to whatever's due next.
Sophomores
Sophomore year is the year to start widening your world a bit. If you haven't yet found the clubs, activities, or volunteer opportunities that genuinely interest you, now is the time to start exploring. Try a few things out. You don't need to have it all figured out — you just need to start paying attention to what you actually enjoy and where you want to spend your time, because that's what will turn into real depth and leadership in the years ahead.
Freshmen
Welcome to high school! The biggest adjustment most freshmen face isn't any one subject — it's the overall volume and pace of the work. It's common to come in underestimating just how much is expected, so give yourself grace as you find your footing, and stay ahead of it as best you can. Turn assignments in on time, even the small ones — they add up. And if something isn't clicking, ask for help early rather than waiting until you're behind. Talk to your teacher, use office hours, or consider a tutor if you need one. Asking for help isn't a sign that you're struggling — it's one of the smartest habits you can build this year.
Wherever you are in high school, the start of the year is the easiest time to set the tone for the months ahead. Here's to a great one.
If you're a student or parent at Mater Dei, Newport Harbor, Corona del Mar, or another Orange County high school and want help mapping out the year ahead, reach out — I'd love to help.











